Is this you?
- You and your partner have chosen no sex
What the research says
Asexual and chosen-sexless relationships are recognized.
How tantra approaches this
White tantra and karezza-influenced practice.
Universal · For couples
Tantra in Sexless Relationships by Choice
Couples who have chosen — for whatever reason — a non-sexual partnership and want intimate practice within it.
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Last reviewed: 2026-06-10 · Reading time ~6 min
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