Couples issues · For couples
The corrosive effect of repeated sexual rejection on the rejecting and rejected partner. Both need the work.
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Last reviewed: 2026-06-10 · Reading time ~6 min
Repeated rejection corrodes long-term sexual life predictably.
Both-partner work, never blaming the lower-libido partner.
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