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The very common practice of faking orgasm — often started to spare a partner's feelings, often hard to undo.
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Last reviewed: 2026-06-10 · Reading time ~6 min
Studies suggest 60–80% of women have faked at least once; 25%+ regularly.
Removes the goal of orgasm. Without the goal, the faking is unnecessary.
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