Men's issues · For men
The complicated, often inherited, sometimes religious shame men carry around their sexuality.
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Last reviewed: 2026-06-10 · Reading time ~6 min
Sexual shame is a recognized clinical phenomenon, especially in men from high-control religious backgrounds.
Reframes pleasure as legitimate. Body-based practice rewires the somatic shame response over time.
Therapy alongside the practice often accelerates the work.
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Sexual shame inherited from evangelical, Catholic, Mormon, Orthodox Jewish, Muslim, or other purity-emphasizing traditions.
Read more →Sexual avoidance or self-consciousness driven by how one feels about one's body.
Read more →The work of building a positive, agency-rich relationship to one's own sexuality.
Read more →The trained capacity to experience multiple orgasms in one session by separating orgasm from ejaculation.
Read more →Difficulty or inability to reach orgasm despite adequate stimulation and arousal.
Read more →Body-image-driven sexual avoidance or self-consciousness in men.
Read more →Masturbation that has become compulsive — interfering with daily life, work, partnered sex, or self-image.
Read more →The capacity to perform sex without being emotionally present.
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