Couples issues · For couples
The very common pattern where unaddressed resentment about chores, parenting, or hidden issues shows up as no-sex.
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Last reviewed: 2026-06-10 · Reading time ~6 min
Gottman research links unaddressed resentment to sexual decline.
Tantric work alone will not solve resentment. The resentment work has to happen first or in parallel.
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