Is this you?
- Kids are now older
- You've forgotten how to be a couple
What the research says
How tantra approaches this
Compressed couple time, deliberately erotic.
Couples issues · For couples
Re-meeting each other erotically after the early-childhood phase.
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Last reviewed: 2026-06-10 · Reading time ~6 min
Compressed couple time, deliberately erotic.
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